Today marks the 3rd anniversary of the sudden passing of my father. I woke up in a dreary state, ready to read a prayer for the departed when his favorite hymn popped in my head. It’s called “It Is Well (With My Soul)” and I’m sure some of you know it. But bear with me as I tell the story of its origin again.
The songwriter, Horatio Spafford, was a real life Job. He lost his son to Scarlet Fever, then his business and real estate investments in the Chicago Fire of 1871. So he sent his remaining family – his wife and 4 daughters – ahead to Europe to start over. The ship sank and Spafford received a telegram from his wife stating “Saved alone”. All 4 daughters were lost at sea. On Spafford’s journey to join his wife, he pinned these words as he sailed past the site at which his daughters had lost their lives:
“When peace like a river, attendeth my way
When sorrow, like sea billows, roll
Whatever my lot, thou have taught me to know
It is well, it is well with my soul.”
Powerful Stuff! As a kid, I used to wonder why something so tragic created such a beautiful sentiment. I used to wonder why my Dad loved such stuffy melancholy.
His favorite poem was “Invictus” by William Ernest Henley (They even bore the same initials).
OUT of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.
Thanks, Dad, for teaching me how to overcome insurmountable adversity. You let me know that hard times would come. More importantly, every ounce of you embodied the most upbeat outlook on life and humanity I’ve ever known. Everyone who crossed your path felt that love (even if you never called it that). They all felt like they were worth something just from meeting you. What a gift you gave us all. We have unconquerable souls.